There is a quote that says that we have three faces, the first the face you show the world, the second the face you show your close friends and family, and the third, the face you no have you ever shown anyone.
How complicated is a person’s personality?
So is there a way to know a person’s personality?
Below is what you can learn to know a person’s personality from the way they behave in certain situations;
Talk about other people’s failures
Talking about the failures you have had with someone, of course they will pretend to care in front of you, we all know that, but how do they respond when you talk about other people’s failures.
If they are empathetic or vice versa, you will know by their reactions and how they respond.
A person’s behavior when he has everything or vice versa
When someone succeeds and gets what they want how do they deal with it all? when a person succeeds in getting a certain position, does he remain humble or is he a brat and when he is in difficult times does he complain and give up?
the actions and reactions of what happens to him describe what a person’s personality really looks like.
How does one person treat others
The treatment of a person shows what he really is, maybe when he treats his superiors he will treat him with respect, but how about the way he treats the people under him, treat him with a beggar, waiter, or parking attendant. Respectful people never forget to be respectful, and they will never look down on people on their social status, If he treats the same with respect, then that’s when you know what kind of personality he really is.
When someone gets compliments or insults
When someone gets a compliment do they respond humbly and express gratitude? or When someone gets insulted do they humble themselves?
How is someone when you’re not with him
If you feel he is so good and cares about you, always listens to your every complaint, and can keep your secret. You can ask another friend of yours to pretend they’re talking about you and see how he or she reacts to it.
A person’s personality when you make him angry
When you see someone always smiling and good with you or the people around them. He may handle the situation calmly, but you can determine the true side of the person when he is angry.
In certain situations a person tends to give clues about his true personality, and can give us insight into the value of other people’s habits.
From the things above, there is one story that mister would like to tell;
Once upon a time there was a famous painter. He decided to make a painting of the most noble person in the world. He traveled far and wide, and finally, on top of a mountain, he met a saint known for his wisdom.
He saw the holy man surrounded by many followers who exalted himself like God.
When the painter asked the saint to make his painting, the saint agreed. After the painter painted it, he took it and kept it in his living room.
Years passed. The painter decided that now he had to paint the most evil person in the world. He again traveled far and wide, and finally, in a prison, he found someone who was serving sentences for countless heinous crimes. He asked permission from the prison warden to paint the bad guy, and with security, the bad guy was allowed to come home to be painted.
When they arrived, the evil man asked, ‘Why do you want to paint me?’
‘Because you are the worst person in the world,’ answered the painter.
In the living room, the painter asked the goon to sit on a chair and he started painting. The evil man saw in front of him a painting of a man and asked the painter, ‘Who is the person in the painting?’
‘He is the most noble person in the world,’ the painter replied
After hearing this, the evil one wept and wept. ‘Why are you crying?’ asked the painter. ‘Are you ashamed of yourself, comparing yourself to the noblest men in the world?’
‘no,’ answered the prisoner. “The person in the painting is me.”
From the story above, mister believes that we can’t really know a person’s true personality from the outside because his real personality may not be what we think and his personality doesn’t always become his personality, because someone can change
This is because good people can become bad and bad people can become good with time, experience, and knowledge. Just as the noblest man can become the most evil man in the world or vice versa, we all change in this life.
A wise man said:
- Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.
- The worst person for you may be the best person for someone else.
- One terrorist in one society may be a martyr for another.
- A killer for one person may be a savior for another.
